Friday, January 16, 2009

So much change in such a short time

Wednesday Tristan started swim lessons at our local YMCA. There were two possible classes for him to go into - a mommy and me class or a kids-only class. I had wanted to do the mommy and me version with him, but I was worried it would foster dependence on me. So, I put him in the kid-only class. By himself. As in all alone except for the other kiddos and the teacher. And guess what? He LOVED it. Surprisingly I'm sure, it was much harder on me to see him out there doing his thing all by himself. Afterward, he was full of chatter about what they did and is so excited to go again next week!

Naiyah also had a big first on that very same day - she stayed at the Y's childcare facility all by herself for about 15 minutes! Sure, I know it seems small but this was the first time she's ever been watched by someone other than family and it was a little tough for me. But, since family can't always be available to watch her while I work out and the Y offers free childcare for members, I wanted to see how she did for a bit while Tristan was in swim class. Lately she's been a bit more stranger-wary, so I was a little nervous. However, aside from one bit of fussing, she did great for them. Again, it was harder for me than for her.

In other news, Tristan is becoming quite the caring big brother. He may pester her now and again, but he really cares about when she's upset and has suggestions as to what she might need. Naiyah is sprouting two teeth on the bottom, has learned how to (efficiently!) army crawl, and is working on her regular crawl. AND..........she said mama! She doesn't say it very consistently yet, but it was very definitely her first word. Exciting and yet bittersweet at the same time. As cliched as it sounds, they really are growing up way too fast. Before I know it they'll be starting kindergarten!

1 comment:

Ashley L. said...

How fun to hear about such big milestones for your kids! That is so exciting! You sound like a great mom.

 
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